alright this is kinda of weird, and i need help.

my mother is 45, im the oldest, my younger brother and sister have put my mom thu hell all there lifes, my youngest sibling is 17, idealy my mom should be about to embark on a great chapter of life. seems how she is single and all, but my sister had a baby and she is NOT a motherly figure..... so once again my mom comes to the recuse, she allways gave all she had to us kidds, she was allways a strong single mom. working two jobs and going to school while raising us. now she is starting over with my nefew. hes now 15 months and a BIG handfull.

my mother is the kinda of lady that will put a clutch in your car.. do your laundry then make you dinner, all while smiling, but she has let her self go after 25 years of raising kidds and chitty husbands that allways leave, she now wakes up everyday puts her hair in a pony tail throws on a old t shirt and raises my nefew.

shes a great lady, pretty smart hard working and a didicated mother.

i want to have someone make her over. i wish there was a show tha would come and make my mom feel like her life is not only cleaning up messes and doing house work. she is single as i stated but she is so down on her self that she wont even think about talking to a guy... she allways says I HAVE A MAN>> HAYDEN... thats my nefew.

she needs this in her life so that she can have the self worth to put on nice cloths and meet a nice guy that my mother can spend time with.

i have contacted oprah and am waiting for a call back.

im a real mans man so i dont even know where to start with trying to make this happend for my mother. but i feel like i must do somthing to help her.

so if any one can help me it would be greatly thanked

U pretty much said it all right there bro.............

Best of luck on this. I can sypothyse with the 'no man' deal..............Mom got divorced when I was 3. Except one short relationship, mom was always home and working. Then about 2 years ago she met her now husband.

And God am I glad.

J

yeah man and thats the part that bothers me.. my mom has been married 7 times... all cheaters, and my mom never thought twice about weather to keep us in a bad house hold even though it was easy. she would rather put her nose to the grind stone and work it out just us kidds and her.

she just moved with me out here to texas.... i finialy talked her into coming here with me instead of staying with a man that has not loved her in 10 years... she stayed with him because he needed her... to pay his bills and sexual non sence.... so she left him and now shes here and i wanna do somthing to change her life for the better,

she not only needs a man she desirves a good man in her life.. but she will have slim pickins with out a make over... lol...

i love my mom... lets help her guys!