Really nothing unusual there. There are a few possible explanations. First, your ear is more sensitive to sound at ~65hz than it is at ~35hz. A sound or tone at ~65hz may be perceived as louder to your ear than a sound or tone at ~35hz even though the actual SPL (as would be measured by a microphone) of the ~65hz tone is lower than the ~35hz tone. SPL competitors are well accustomed to this, and is the reason the experienced competitors will tell you that what is louder to the ear won't necessarily be louder on the mic. This effect has been studied and is known as the Equal Loudness Contour. As you can see from the graph, a 35hz tone requires approximately 10db higher SPL to sound equally loud as a 65hz tone to the ear. Second, just because the enclosure is tuned to 35hz doesn't necessarily indicate there will be a peak in the output at that frequency. Depending on the parameters of the sub and how it responds in the enclosure you have it in, it's possible the output is actually lower at 35hz than it is at 65hz. It's also possible that the output from the subwoofer is pretty equivalent at 35hz and 65hz and you are simply experiencing effects of #1 above and #3 below. Third, I'm not sure where you have the enclosure located or the specifics of the room, but you may be experiencing the effects of some room nodes which will affect the frequency response from various listening positions. While rooms in a house don't have the "cabin gain" that we experience in car audio, there will be locations in the room where the sound waves have constructive and destructive interference which will affect the frequency response. Well, yes, if you lowpassed the subwoofer and that lowpass filter attenuated 64hz you could of course make it sound less loud than 35hz. However, that's not the mechanism(s) causing what you are experiencing.