First thing you need to shop for is a crossover. No way, no how are you going to get a 3 way to work with the Audio Control you have.
Next step is to figure out how much of a midbass driver you can use...and to stop looking at ANYTHING car audio specific. Then if you want nothing low, you should decide if you are willing to build kicks. As a first install of a 3 way I would recommend that as it will simplify the crossover setup.
All that being said, I'd still really recommend nailing a 2 way first. It will sound better as it won't be the equipment that limits the install.