fair enough in the whole of it. i am challenged here on which way i should respond. i feel i should either inquire what it is you are reffering to, or just restate what he originally said. Five, he had only asked you about your trip .... saying whats up.....in the ihop. is there misinformation within that? Is it a stupid post or slao in the face to say whats up in the ihop? i am not being a smart ass here, i really am wanting to have a sloid answer as to what he done wrong, in the begining, so i can explain it to him accordiningly, as well as to avoid it myself. if there is other post or coments that he did wrong on, i was not aware of it and apologixe for the oversite and misdrawn conclusion that you was responding to his post in the ihop. the disrespect that you are referring to, just for clarifacation, was what he went on to say afterwards , correct? i totally understand the rest and to where as you and i know there will always be some body that does break the rules delibertly, i can never gaurantee that..... i do assure you i will continue to try to learn and uphold the actions deemed acceptable on here. i hope as you read this, you understand my position on it in all aspects.... as a friend to him and as a member to this forum. thanks chop.