So sorry to hear that. Prayers to their family and yours. I always thought I was okay with death, but experiencing it closely has changed me forever. I hope that she is able to take it well.
Sorry to hear Neal. While it is tragic that she is learning to deal with such a close loss so young, she will ultimately be able to help others in the future if they have to go through similar things. If we can help, don't hesitate to reach out. J